FREEDOM

I'm sure you feel so stuck there is no hope. I personally don't have a car, job, or money but during my journey I am finding out that there is help out there. Sure you hear that all the time but you never really know where to get help from. Well I'm here to let you know where to look.

For those of you who are dealing with a domestic violence issue. First thing is first
REPORT IT! Yes sweetie I know you love him but you have got to think about what your LIFE means to you. Your parents did not bring you into this world do be someones personal punching bag. There are places out there for women who have kids and women who don't have kids. They don't turn you away cause you have kids and it doesn't matter how many kids you have. They won't turn you away because you don't have kids. THERE IS HELP. He will never find you. I'm sure he has told you "no matter where you go I'll find you" or "You can't live without me" THATS BULL CRAP! He will not find you, I PROMISE. You need to call your Domestic Violence shelter. You can call infromation and they will give you the 800 number. You can also find a shelter online. You can also call your local YWCA and ask them for help.

I know when you think Womens Shelter you think of some damp dark crap hole but that isn't true. Most of these facilities have on site daycare, personal rooms, cafateria, playground, court yard and much more. They will assist you based on your situation. They will even help you transition into independent living.

For those of you who have a high school diploma or GED. I am sure you have thought to yourself "man I wish I could go back to school" well guess what? YOU CAN! Check out the local colleges around you. A lot of them will have student housing and daycare on campus. You can get a great apartment for dirt cheap and still be able to go to school and work. When I say dirt cheap I mean dirty cheap! 2bd 1bth $300 a month! You can't get a efficancy for that. Please if you have any more information that I have forgotten to add or if you have any questions please post them

Hello Ladies,

I would like to wish all my mothers out there a Happy Mothers Day. Even if your so called loved one isnt' wishing you one just remember you still have me and I care about you. If he is being nice to you thats great. You deserve one good day to yourself but just remember if it's one thing, and probably the only thing, he is consistent with thats his ever changing mood. Nice one day mean the next. Take in his niceness for the day but just remember not to get sucked into it. As women we always want to believe that he will really change but the intellegent part of us knows thats simply not true. I'm going to share something with you that my big brother told me when I was a teenager. At the time it was simply just funny but now that I am a mature woman it makes total since. Boys/men are completely STUPID from the ages of 14 to 24 and sometimes they don't even grow up then. Men never really fully grow up. If he hasn't "grown up" to be a kind, respectful and caring man by now the chances of him seeing the error of his ways are slim to none. Keep your chin up and remember you are a good woman

FREEDOM

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Where do I find help?

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!

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Where do I find help? I'm sure you feel so stuck there is no hope. I personally don't have a car, job, or money but during my journey I am finding out that there is help out there. Sure you hear that all the time but you never really know where to get help from. Well I'm here to let you know where to look. For those of you who are dealing with a domestic violence issue. First thing is first REPORT IT! Yes sweetie I know you love him but you have got to think about what your LIFE means to you. Your parents did not bring you into this world do be someones personal punching bag. There are places out there for women who have kids and women who don't have kids. They don't turn you away cause you have kids and it doesn't matter how many kids you have. They won't turn you away because you don't have kids. THERE IS HELP. He will never find you. I'm sure he has told you "no matter where you go I'll find you" or "You can't live without me" THATS BULL CRAP! He will not find you, I PROMISE. You need to call your Domestic Violence shelter. You can call infromation and they will give you the 800 number. You can also find a shelter online. You can also call your local YWCA and ask them for help. I know when you think Womens Shelter you think of some damp dark crap hole but that isn't true. Most of these facilities have on site daycare, personal rooms, cafateria, playground, court yard and much more. They will assist you based on your situation. They will even help you transition into independent living. For those of you who have a high school diploma or GED. I am sure you have thought to yourself "man I wish I could go back to school" well guess what? YOU CAN! Check out the local colleges around you. A lot of them will have student housing and daycare on campus. You can get a great apartment for dirt cheap and still be able to go to school and work. When I say dirt cheap I mean dirty cheap! 2bd 1bth $300 a month! You can't get a efficancy for that. Please if you have any more information that I have forgotten to add or if you have any questions please post them		HAPPY MOTHERS DAY! Hello Ladies, I would like to wish all my mothers out there a Happy Mothers Day. Even if your so called loved one isnt' wishing you one just remember you still have me and I care about you. If he is being nice to you thats great. You deserve one good day to yourself but just remember if it's one thing, and probably the only thing, he is consistent with thats his ever changing mood. Nice one day mean the next. Take in his niceness for the day but just remember not to get sucked into it. As women we always want to believe that he will really change but the intellegent part of us knows thats simply not true. I'm going to share something with you that my big brother told me when I was a teenager. At the time it was simply just funny but now that I am a mature woman it makes total since. Boys/men are completely STUPID from the ages of 14 to 24 and sometimes they don't even grow up then. Men never really fully grow up. If he hasn't "grown up" to be a kind, respectful and caring man by now the chances of him seeing the error of his ways are slim to none. Keep your chin up and remember you are a good woman Reasoning As women it is in our nature to try and reason with our men to try and get them to understand our feelings. When you in a bad relationship reasoning gets you nowhere. Why reason with someone who doesn't care to see your side of the story or even understand the pain you feel when they treat you badly? Bottom line, DONT reason with someone who doesn't care about you. Maybe somewhere deep down in the pit of his cold black heat he loves you but trust me you wont reach that part of him in this life time. If anything you need to be reasoning with yourself. There is no point is staying in a relationship that is onesided. Ask yourself this, Do you want to look back in fourty years and wonder why you ever wasted your time? In fourty years if your not sick or on your death bed from all the stress you will look old, worn out, and sader than ever. You need to lover yourself more then you love him and by torturing yourself with this day in and day out of unhappiness and misery your only putting yourself in a early grave. You woudn't lay down and die for cancer would you? Then don't lay down and die for him. Remember......FREEDOM BE THANKFUL I know it is hard sometimes to be positive considering what you are going through but here is my advice to you on this matter. When things are really bad and you feel yourself giving up I want you to stop and think of what you do have. Talk to God or who ever it is you believe in. Thank him for your health, your children, your life, and your friends and family. The fact of the matter is your still here! You still have life left in you and that is something REALLY big to be thankful for. As long as you are still alive you still have the power to fight! You CAN AND WILL get out of your bad position. Keep praying and being thankfu for what you do have and God or whoever you believe in will put the solutions in your pathway. You just need to keep your eyes open, love in your hear, trust in your almight and be thankful for what you do have and you will survive this, I PROMISE. Things I'm thankful for: My children My health My loving friends My Studio Veena family My Family GOD My strong will My life FREE CHARITY CARS Ok ladies, for those of you who are without a car (like me) and you have no means of getting one, there is an organization called freecharitycars.org THEY ARE GREAT! They are a non profit organization that gives away cars to those who are in need. Now granted like any non profit organization the need is greater then the availability. Dont let that discourage you! When setting up a profile you want to tell your "story" that people are going to see(this will done in a condensed version of only 300 words) try to only give the MOST IMPORTANT facts of what is going on with your situation. Then expalin to them why you think your deserving of a car....this will help people determine if they want to vote for you or not. The more votes you get the more likely you are to get a car when one is available in your area. Now you will also tell the long version of your story in a letter to the organiztion (all online of course) You then want to start adding friends to your profile and vote for them EVERYDAY. They will in turn vote for you. To make voting go faster you want to go to your friends list (NOT YOUR BLUE LIST) and right click on each name and then hit "OPEN IN ANOTHER TAB) do this for every single person you have on your friends list. Then click on each tab and "cast your vote" for each person. GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!!! Keep up the hope. I know I do and its how I make it day by day. if you make a profile add me SinglemomSOS and let me know your from once of my sites :)